The straw victim
Victim blaming is a well disseminated concept in modern feminism, and perhaps one of those with the greatest reach outside of its circles. Unlike many other feminist favorites such as the patriarchy, the idea is almost self-explanatory. In its canonical form, victim blaming is about shifting part of the blame, for instance when a girl is raped, from the perpetrator of the crime and to the victim, because of her supposedly irresponsible behaviors such as dressing provocatively.Unlike with the patriarchy, the concept of victim blaming seems to make sense on the face of it. After all, there is something perversely illogical about blaming someone who is doing nothing illegal, when someone else decides to violate their rights. If, in a game of soccer, a forward manages to dribble his way past the last defender, we can easily understand the defender's temptation to grab a hold of his opponent's shirt. The way the rules of soccer work, intentionally fouling is often optimal play. But no one right in their mind would tell the forward that he should not have provoked the defender by trying to score or that the defender does not deserve a card.
Unfortunately, however convincing this might seem, it is merely a shallow rebuttal of a straw man. This becomes evident the moment we choose a more interesting case - say, a smoker who has contracted lung cancer. With some sophistication, we can entertain these two notions at the same time - that cancer is a terrible condition we wouldn't wish on anyone short of maybe this guy - but also that smoking is a dangerous habit, which in this case may have contributed to the development of cancer.
The staunch disavowal of victim blaming suggests that we should not belabor the exact cause of the cancer, or its relationship to the patient's smoking habits. But how can we reconcile this sort of attitude with informing people about the risks of smoking? Are we supposed to run campaigns to raise awareness among potential smokers and heavily tax the sale of cigarettes to actual smokers, but pretend there is no causal relationship in the cases where someone is actually diagnosed with cancer? Were we to stoop to this level of dishonesty, would we even be fooling anyone?
And is there no room to discuss the differences between our moral obligations to help out people who get ill through no fault of their own - such as being born with a genetic defect - and those who to various degrees have brought diseases upon themselves through their choice of lifestyle?
False dichotomy
It might seem a bit dishonest to completely change the topic to medical conditions to make a point. It isn't always obvious whether an analogy holds - that is to say, whether the point in the analogy actually carries over to the situation we are trying to understand. So, to bring the focus back to criminal offenses:Suppose John commutes to work by train every morning. One day, a total stranger gets on and stabs him with a knife. Other passengers come to his aid - the assailant is subdued and turned over to the police. The investigation reveals that he is a long-time sufferer of schizophrenia with no particular motive for the attack.This fictitious case is engineered so that John has done nothing out of the ordinary to expose himself to danger. There is no particular reason why John was attacked, rather than any of the other people in the train car. It is difficult to imagine what John could or should have done differently to protect himself.
In this case, nobody is going to suggest than John had it coming. Because there is actually a coherent logic operating behind what is called victim blaming, and it relates to whether the victims are taking reasonable precautions to protect themselves. As a contrast:
Suppose Emma is the mother of a twelve year old daughter. One day, her daughter asks if she can go mall to meet a girl she has recently met over the Internet. Without asking any questions, Emma tells her to have a good time and gives her some money so they can have lunch together. Her daughter never comes home. Investigation reveals that the new friend was actually middle aged man impersonating a schoolgirl.It is difficult to blame the twelve year old girl for her misfortunes and it feels heartless to tell the mother than the should have known better. But - the mother really should have known better and she has a responsibility to take care of her daughter. And of course, this is not to say that abducting, possibly raping, possibly murdering a girl isn't wrong. It is hard to imagine anything more deserving of the death penalty. But this is a textbook example of a false dichotomy - presenting two choices as either-or, when they are not mutually exclusive.
Imagine these two hypothetical rules:
- Do not kidnap young girls. No, really, don't. Actually, don't kidnap anyone.
- Do not send your pre-teen daughter off to meet strangers from the Internet unsupervised.
There is no supernatural force which compels us to pick just one. Both these rules can be in effect, simultaneously. It is very unfortunate that not everybody abides by the first rule, but wishes aren't horses. Indeed, in an ideal society where nobody ever broke any laws, the second rule would be entirely unnecessary. But in the real world, the second rule is not an endorsement of abduction - it is a sensible precaution, borne out of compassion for children.
False dichotomy revisited
But maybe we do not want to accept the second rule. After all, we would like a society that is safe for children and where the criminals don't win - where we do not limit our own experiences or those of our children. Do not girls have a right to be in public spaces without fearing for their safety? Is it fair that they suffer the cost of having to take all sorts of precautions, while molesters roam uninhibited?
Perhaps not. Let us assume that there exist adult men who appreciate the company of young girls - this is not fictional. Let us further assume that there are laws against acting on these urges - against abduction, of course, and perhaps also the grooming itself. Finally, suppose that despite the risk of severe punishment, there are still people who will disregard these laws. We still seem to be in the real world rather than at Hogwarts.
Then we have to evaluate our options. We can double down on the principle that nobody should break the law, ever - it is illegal, after all. We can exercise our right to live in a safe society by refusing to do anything about the situation at all. The price of this policy is much too high to pay - that of our children becoming prey.
Or we can thrust to the issue into the hands of law enforcement. If a girl is abducted, even if she was meeting a stranger from the Internet all by herself, then the police aren't doing their job. The fault lies not with the mother, but with a lack of surveillance; that there weren't any officers patrolling the area; that no bystanders noticed what was going on and stepped in.
It is symptomatic, merely by trying our best to not blame victims, we automatically steer towards blaming everybody else. If there is something inherently wrong about blaming victims, because the blame lies entirely with the perpetrator, how can we square this with police blaming?
Watch me, Big Brother
It is easy to preempt the answer - keeping us safe is their job! That is all good and well. But are we sure that we really want the sort of Orwellian police state that would be necessary to guarantee everybody's safety at all times? If we want to really do away with victim blaming, there is no reason to stop with people letting their guard down in public spaces.
Who is to say that I should lock my bike? That I shouldn't leave my car unattended with the engine running? That I shouldn't expect to get my money back, if I lend a thousand dollars to a perfect stranger who promises to pay me back? Stealing is clearly illegal, after all, and it's not a crime to be careless with one's private property. It would be prohibitively costly and involve endless routine controls to realize this utopia.
This is veering off into absurdity, perhaps, but that is exactly the point. The moment you accept that people should lock their bikes, that they should avoid passing out drunk in certain parts of town past midnight, or just that they should keep their distance from dangerous animals in the wild - if you concede that there is at least some point where people must be expected to take the responsibility for themselves, then the question has completely changed its nature.
Joint effort
We are no longer refusing any and all sorts of victim blaming, but instead trying to strike the best balance between civil liberties, police budgets, draconian prison sentences and personal responsibility. But this is not a novel problem - indeed, the societies we live in today are the products of sincere attempts by intelligent people to find the best possible compromise.
When any of our security measures fail, it should and must be pointed out. If the police fails to show up in reasonable time or if a dangerous murderer is carelessly released back into society, we should find fault with the police or the judicial system, even though the criminal himself bears the ultimate responsibility. Similarly, when people become subject to crimes while failing to take appropriate precautions, we should point out what they could have done differently, regardless of what feminists think about victim blaming.
That is not to say we have no sympathy for the victims, or that we approve of what has happened to them. It is just being honest about the unfortunate fact, that combating crime is a difficult problem. Even with every other part of society doing its best to protect us, there are further precautions we can take to keep ourselves safe - that in some cases, failing to do so will have manifest consequences.
And sometimes, bad things happen to good people, despite them making every reasonable effort to stay out of trouble. It is unfortunate, but it is no easier to find infallible solutions for crime, than for diseases. Sometimes, the cure is worse is than the illness. Often attributed to Benjamin Franklin, most likely wrongly:
Those who would give up their freedom for security, deserve neither and will lose both.










